I am a non-Mormon woman married to a Mormon manвwhich seems to be a less common scenario in the LDS world. Jack is right about the demographics. Mormons are one of the few remaining groups with healthy women. I feel like I make a lot of sacrifices to see him and try to make it as convenient as possible for him, which means planning ahead and changing my schedule around sometimes.
I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. I am a something male. There will always be difference between spouses. Take the missionary lessons, read the Book of Mormon and the Bible. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. She is going to dump you. That response made her very happy. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think.